Linton Weeks feels that the evolution
of language has caused people to forget the polite phrases that used
to be common in English. He believes that as children, people were
taught to use polite words like “please,” “thank you,” and
“you're welcome.” However, as time as passed, people here these
words much less. By using several reports and surveys, and specific
peoples' examples, Weeks shows the level of respect has deteriorated
over time for many people.
Weeks starts with asking readers to
listen to the conversations surrounding them. He points out that the
most common polite words are missing from most conversations we hear
nowadays; thank you and please. He brings up a woman who has noticed
the decline of use of polite words and states that she blames it on
the “casual.” She blames the casualness of society for the lack
in use of polite words. She believes that through the casual
traditions of society today, words that used to carry respect are now
no longer being used because they seem too polite; people don't use
them as much anymore. This person's example brings to the picture
what Weeks stated in his thesis.
Weeks moves on to talk about the
evolution of polite words. He gives the example of “you're welcome”
turning into words like “you bet” and “enjoy.” He argues that
the words now used to replace these words “do not carry the same
sentiment” as the original word or phrase. This example of one
changing word again proves his thesis. We can prove this for
ourselves by comparing how many times we hear “you're welcome” to
how many times we hear “you bet.”
Weeks brings in psychiatrist Gregory E.
Smith and tells his opinion about changing ways. Smith brings in the
aspect of behaviour as well as language. He claims that it is rare
for people to make the eye contact that used to be so important and
what parents used to pressure their children about. Research done by
Rasmussen Reports showed that about 76 percent of people said
“Americans are becoming more rude and less civil.” This report
shows the majority of a place saying that people were becoming much
less polite, which supports Weeks in his opinion of changing
behaviours.
Through these strong opinions,
examples, and researches, Weeks' thesis on politeness evolving to
casual words is strongly supported. It is shown that people think
language and behaviour has truly evolved into something that is taken
too lightly, and that people should go back to teaching their
children how to show manners and respect to the people around them
through a simple thing as language.